Live Life Out Loud! Smile and Laugh. Happiness is a Must. Sincerely, Ashley.Tumblr (3.0; @ajashleymj)http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o3_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o4_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o6_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o7_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o8_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m0edf42aLx1qdfww1o9_r1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/18987746778http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/18987746778Thu, 08 Mar 2012 23:17:44 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkn8a82s1X1qaejzio1_500.gif"/><br/><br/><blockquote> <p>WAIT UP, WAIT FOR ME!  <strong><big>NOT YOU I DON’T EVEN KNOW YOU!</big></strong></p> </blockquote>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/5338894651http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/5338894651Mon, 09 May 2011 14:15:50 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lkls2hZZkS1qgfkuuo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/5338795474http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/5338795474Mon, 09 May 2011 14:10:55 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lj5e384LU81qf65bmo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4393274909http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4393274909Wed, 06 Apr 2011 13:13:10 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lb5sszqK4A1qdbbywo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4393081408http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4393081408Wed, 06 Apr 2011 13:01:49 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_limws2ApXI1qcxcjfo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://monalisawearmeout.tumblr.com/post/4189901257">monalisawearmeout</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><a href="http://attackattack-.tumblr.com/post/4188171583">attackattack-</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>omg</p> </blockquote> <p>I THOUGHT I WAS THE ONLY ONE!!!</p> <p>I Do this ALL THE TIME!! Woah!</p> </blockquote>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4342082244http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4342082244Mon, 04 Apr 2011 13:15:16 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lisezzA4y21qdbbywo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4193610203http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4193610203Tue, 29 Mar 2011 18:32:41 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liobd490ot1qdbbywo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>The days when Cartoons were actually worth watching</p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162839533http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162839533Mon, 28 Mar 2011 14:01:23 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liofliT1Dj1qdbbywo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>LOVE THIS! :)</p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162805677http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162805677Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:59:32 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liohaurWeY1qdbbywo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162789283http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162789283Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:58:36 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liqaj8qI6V1qdbbywo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162744602http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162744602Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:56:02 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis424Q1Co1qio9o0o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis424Q1Co1qio9o0o2_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis424Q1Co1qio9o0o3_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>I Love These Guys :)</p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162585261http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162585261Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:46:52 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o2_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o4_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o6_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o7_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o8_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o9_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lis409CSeH1qio9o0o10_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162569499http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4162569499Mon, 28 Mar 2011 13:45:44 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liivufE6g61qio9o0o1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liivufE6g61qio9o0o2_250.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liivufE6g61qio9o0o3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liivufE6g61qio9o0o4_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liivufE6g61qio9o0o5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047274566http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047274566Wed, 23 Mar 2011 14:11:03 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_liiuy42IHi1qio9o0o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047077094http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047077094Wed, 23 Mar 2011 13:51:39 -0400<p>What do you do when you can&#8217;t find the opening to the hole you are standing in? The louder you scream for help, the farther away everyone else seems. You try to climb your way out, but you keep pushing yourself back. I have been stuck in this rut for almost two weeks now. It seems like a positive attitude and a smile are just not enough anymore. Now a days we have to please everyone. And if every expectation is not met, then nothing matters. (I feel kinda awkward having my first real post seem kinda negative but that&#8217;s just the way it&#8217;s gona be!) All a person can be is who they are. THAT&#8217;S IT! Nothing more. Perfection is a word that I do not like. Perfection-<span id="hotword"><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">a</span> </span><span><a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/perfect">perfect</a> </span><span id="hotword"><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">embodiment</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">or</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">example</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">of</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">something. (Thanks Dictionary.com!) Well what the heck is perfect? Perfect-<span id="hotword"><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">conforming</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">absolutely</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">to</span> </span><a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/the">the</a><span id="hotword"> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">description</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">or</span> </span><a href="http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/definition">definition</a><span id="hotword"> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">of</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">an</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">ideal</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">type (Thanks again Dictionary.com). Does anyone every achieve perfection? Why do people expect perfection? If someone was perfect then they would be able to satisfy everyone else. They would always be smiling. Always look the best. Always be THE best.</span></span></span></span></p> <p><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'">What about the real person? Real. Love it. Real-<span id="hotword"><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">being</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">an</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">actual</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">thing;</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">having</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">objective</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">existence;</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">not</span> <span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'" id="hotword">imaginary (ILY Dictionary.com). A real person is not always happy. They make mistakes. Their smile is crooked. They get dirt on the bottom of their shoes just like everyone else. Being real is what people should strive for. I am real and that&#8217;s why I am in this &#8221;not-so-perfect hole&#8221; I guess. Other people expect perfection and what they get is me. Personally, I like me. Just saying. I like real people. And I guess I like &#8220;perfect&#8221; people. I just don&#8217;t like their expectations of me and other real people. Real people get bashed for being real. They get pushed to the side or pushed in a hole. </span></span></span></span></span></span><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'">There is only so much a person can take until they are stuck in a hole. They see the expectations that others make. If these are not met, the hole gets bigger. They cry for help but no one helps the real person. </span></span></span></span></span></span></p> <p><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'">On the other hand, real people do have realistic</span></span> views. They have realistic expectations. If they are not met, the world does not come crashing down. The hole doesn&#8217;t get bigger. The drive to do better is gained. Instead of standing in the &#8220;not-so-perfect hole,&#8221; they are standing in a little pot hole and just have to step out of it. Instead of &#8216;do it or die,&#8217; it&#8217;s &#8216;do it and try.&#8217; Being real lowers stress. All the goals you set are actually reachable!! Not outrageous. </span></span></span></span></p> <p><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'"><span><span name="hotword" onclick="this.style.backgroundColor='#b5d5ff';return hotWord(this);" onmouseout="this.style.backgroundColor='transparent'" onmouseover="this.style.cursor='default'">This week, I am going to strive to be real. No more &#8220;not-so-perfect hole.&#8221; No more perfection. If I need help and no one answers, I will go MAKE someone help me. I will make myself see the brighter side. I will find the opening to the hole I am in, pull myself out, and be done with the perfect side. A positive attitude and a smile WILL be good enough. Sometimes you have to do what is best. Gotta stay calm and do what I can do.</span></span></span></span></p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047000177http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4047000177Wed, 23 Mar 2011 13:44:25 -0400http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4014725251http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4014725251Mon, 21 Mar 2011 21:45:58 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lifqhgS3z61qio9o0o1_400.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lifqhgS3z61qio9o0o2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lifqhgS3z61qio9o0o3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lifqhgS3z61qio9o0o4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p>Andy Warhol. Strange Man. Cool Ideas.</p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4014203827http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4014203827Mon, 21 Mar 2011 21:22:27 -0400<p>definately a wall. it will hold you up and never let you down.</p>http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4006386582http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4006386582Mon, 21 Mar 2011 14:29:17 -0400““All life is an experiment. The more experiments you make the better.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson”http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4006352562http://ajashleymj.tumblr.com/post/4006352562Mon, 21 Mar 2011 14:26:59 -0400